Yes, we allow our kids to game in the Hopkins Household. Although some parents are completely against any devices for elementary-aged kids, especially anything with regards to video games, we have found a healthy gaming setup for kids to be a valuable tool in our home.
If you are on the fence, here are the real benefits we’ve seen, plus exactly how we remain in control as parents.
The Surprising Benefits of Gaming for Kids
While screen time boundaries are essential, video games aren’t just mindless distractions. I’ve watched Griff and Owen develop some incredible skills through play:
- Cognitive Skills: They have enhanced their critical thinking, problem-solving and memory recall while figuring out how to solve complex gaming puzzles and beat challenging levels.
- Emotional Growth: They have learned how to lose gracefully and control their tempers when things aren’t going their way. Don’t get me wrong, these lessons are very much ongoing!
- Social Connections: They’ve connected with kids in their classes who aren’t always available for traditional playdates due to chaotic family schedules, but can easily jump online to play a couple of games together.
- Pure Entertainment: They also just enjoy it! On rainy days when they can’t get outside, or on long car trips to get to our family adventures, gaming is a great way to pass the time.
How to Remain in Control of Screen Time
I completely understand why some parents are against gaming for their kids. If you aren’t familiar with modern gaming devices, the technology can feel incredibly overwhelming. It’s completely natural to wonder how you can keep your kids safe from all the scary things we hear about online gaming.
But I’m here to tell you that it is entirely possible to allow your kids to game and still feel in total control as a parent. Let’s look at the best system to get started, followed by how to lock down safety settings.
What is the Best Gaming Console for Kids?
If you’re ready to invest, the most common and easiest gaming device to manage as a parent is the Nintendo Switch. It is by far the best gaming console for kids because of its flexibility (you can play it on the TV or on the go) and its focus on family-friendly content.
Don’t just purchase the console, though. To protect your investment from kids’ wear and tear, make sure to add these essentials:
- A tempered glass screen protector.
- A durable protective case (to grip the console).
- A sturdy travel carrying case for road trips.
Setting Up Parental Controls for Gaming (Step-by-Step)
Now for the important stuff: maintaining boundaries. Setting up parental controls for gaming on the Nintendo Switch is simple, and you can manage everything remotely using the free mobile app.
Follow these quick steps to get set up:
- Start on the Console: Open System Settings from the home screen on your Nintendo Switch.
- Find the Controls: Scroll down, select Parental Controls, and then choose Parental Control Settings.
- Get the Link Code: Select I Have the App Installed to generate a six-digit registration code on your screen.
- Download the App: Download the free Nintendo Switch Parental Controls app on your iOS or Android phone.
- Link Your Account: Sign into your Nintendo Account in the app and enter the six-digit code shown on your Switch.
- Set Your Limits: Use the app to instantly set daily play limits (which automatically lock the screen when time is up,) restrict communication features and block age-inappropriate games.
It’s as easy as that. Now your kids can play with zero added worry or stress on your end.
Finding Safe, Family Friendly Video Games
Looking for game recommendations that are safe for elementary-aged kids? Two of our absolute favorites are:
These are perfect for younger kids because they carry an “Everyone” ESRB rating (ensuring no inappropriate themes or violence.) They feature simple controls and forgiving mechanics so kids don’t get frustrated, and they offer cooperative (co-op) modes so parents or siblings can jump in and help out during tough sections.
Gaming Doesn’t Have to Be a Battle
Gaming doesn’t have to be a source of conflict or a definitive “no” in your household. With the right system, safe games and active parental controls, your kids can enjoy the benefits of play without adding to your stress.
I love hearing Griff and Owen strategizing and giggling when they work together in a game. As someone who grew up playing Super Mario and Duck Hunt on the original NES in the 90s, I get a wonderful sense of nostalgia watching them play.
My husband and I even love jumping in to help them solve a hard level. It provides a real sense of unity and accomplishment to work together and succeed, creating a beautiful bonding moment for our family. Now get out there and do the same!
